I am more than 25 years old. I just got healed after a two-year heartbreak, and my parents are already stressing me out about marriage. I am an introvert, not shy, but if I am not close or familiar with you, I won’t talk to you. People see this as pride, though, but it has nothing to do with it. That’s just me. A female friend of mine in my church said someone said that I barely smile, and this can make it difficult for men to approach me. There is this guy who usually sits close to me at church and shows all the green flags and all, like he’s shy or something.
He’s totally my spec, but until he talks to me, I’m not saying anything, and this kind of makes me feel like what my friend said is true. People do approach me; I have friends, but I’m not dating yet due to what I went through. I have never, for once, thought about having a boyfriend in church. I just go there and focus on my reason for being there, and now people are reading meanings into it. I talk a lot, laugh a lot, but not with people I’m not familiar with. Please, what do I do? A lot of people are talking.
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