I’m seeking advice and assistance regarding my child’s father, who has refused to take responsibility for our child. I left him due to his toxic behavior, as he would beat me at every slight opportunity. I feared for my life and didn’t want my child to grow up with trauma or mental health issues. His mother never liked me and cursed me, saying hurtful things about me and my child. I’m warning other women, if his mom doesn’t like you, no matter how much he loves you, please run. I’m glad I left without regrets. Now, he’s trying to take my child away from me. Despite his efforts to win me over and accusing me of things I didn’t do, I’ve moved on and show no signs of being hurt.
Notably, he’s been in a relationship with his current girlfriend since I was pregnant, and he’s been publicly posting about her. Please help me with advice on how to protect my child and myself from his manipulation and potential harm. His mom told him the same week I gave birth, ‘Now calm down and just look for a wife.’ She has done a lot of harm that I can’t even begin to describe. Now that our child is starting school, I called him, and he had the audacity to tell me to bring our child to live with him, saying his girlfriend would take care of her. I refused, and then he suggested I take her to his mom’s house.
But his mom has called our child a bastard and demanded a DNA test, which he refuses to take because he doesn’t want me to ‘win.’ Last night, I called him again, and he said our child must spend one week with him because he misses her, and then we can discuss the DNA test. Who does that? Please help me and advise me on what to do. We had a court wedding, and I’m determined to fight for my rights this time. I’m worried they’ll try to take my child away and deny me access. Please, how do I go about this? If I raise this child alone, in the end, I’ll just receive apologies, and he’ll still be the father of my child—there’s nothing I can do about that.
It was this same man who deflowered me, and I didn’t cheat on him; I was even naive. They requested a DNA test, but they still refuse to do it. Please, help me! He’s trying to manipulate me, and even his mom said if I take legal action, they have the money and resources to settle the case out of court.
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