I met my girl during my ND days, and we both love each other so much despite the fact that we are not from the same tribe. We’ve both cheated on each other in the relationship, but we settled it, and since then, everything has been going well and fine. We marked our 8th anniversary this year, but recently, she always tells me about having a baby (i.e., she can’t wait to carry my baby despite the fact that we’re both still struggling). Lo and behold, she finally got pregnant. Since she broke the news to me, I’ve been having mixed feelings because I never saw myself becoming a father in the next two years due to the situation of things.
She already pushed me to tell my family, and my family accepted it. But what I’m scared of right now is the bride price, the responsibility, and the welfare of the unborn baby. Omo, as everything is right now, I’m losing my head because having a child with a woman you love wholeheartedly is sweet, but the responsibility when you’re not financially ready is another thing. Please advise me because I’ll be in the comment section.
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