I think I need advice. I love my boyfriend so much, but he cheats a lot. We have dated for 4 years, and he’s still cheating and not planning to stop. I do check his phone, and he’s in every girl’s DM, begging them to h00k up and claiming he doesn’t have a girlfriend, saying he needs breasts and all. He will lodge them in the same apartment where he sometimes lodges me, but he doesn’t bring them home, just pays them. I’m thinking I’m an option because if I catch him cheating, I’ll be the one to apologize. The problem is, I’ve been in two different relationships before him. Those guys cheated on me and didn’t even respect me, and still, I was the one giving them money because I really like relationships.
But this my boyfriend now is my everyday prayer point financially. I’ve got 3 iPhones worth millions. He changes my phone every year, buys me both iPads and hair, and I have my own apartment. I’m not rich, but I don’t lack money: monthly N200k, N500k, N100k, N50k, N300k, N1 million, N400k, N1.2 million. I keep wondering why he loves and spends on me this much yet still cheats with hookup girls. Now, he wants to come and see my people to marry me, but I’m delaying him, telling him they’re busy and he should wait until next year. I’m scared. He promised me a car after I get pregnant. He has 4 houses and an oil and gas business. There was a time I left the relationship because of his cheating.
I sold one phone and used the money to hold myself together. He told me that whether someone is cheating or not, they can never spend on me like he does. He admits that he cheats. He trained me in school and other skills that I learned, which cost money, and I’m still learning more. I’m not working for now. I want to start saving so I can be rich too like him and then marry him. I’m thinking if I leave him because of cheating, all men might be the same. When I’m in his mansion, I imagine how my children will be proud of me in the future. So, should I go ahead with the marriage fam?
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