I am 25, and my boyfriend is 27. We were friends for almost a year before we started dating, though I am not a friendly person, so I didn’t get to know many things about him until we started dating. I know he’s a type that loves ladies. To cut the long story short, I caught him with another lady and decided to start staying with him. Even with that, he still goes to them or invites her whenever I am not around, but I acted like I didn’t know anything and begged him to stop cheating on me. He swore that he wasn’t. I was really broken, but still, I acted strong. After some months, I noticed I was pregnant. I ran several tests to be sure, and all were positive. I felt like aborting it but also thought of another way.
So, I kept it and informed him. He was happy and even called to inform his mother instantly, and she was also glad. His dad called me to talk to me and ask for the next step. But my guy didn’t stop sleeping around like a d0g. Even when I traveled to inform my mum about the pregnancy, he still invited another girl over. The most painful part is that this girl is not up to my standard in terms of facial appearance, body shape, smartness, everything. I still showed this guy more love, allowed him to have sex with me, cooked, and did everything for him. And whenever we had sex, I noticed he was always happy, and I felt sad, wondering what else he wanted.
Most times, I cried after sex and begged him to stop cheating, and his response was always the same. I thought of what to do, and I picked the lady’s contact from his phone and messaged her using a friend’s number. I hid my identity and told her I was a friend of my boyfriend’s, that he told me everything about her, blah blah blah, that he loved her but there’s another lady. But she should keep it a secret and come over without informing him. She did, and everything scattered. I’m already pregnant, and I haven’t been sleeping for more than three weeks now. I traveled to give him space, and I’m waiting to see his next move.
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