I’m 24, and my relationship is almost two years old. He told me he wants to see my parents when he comes back. At the beginning of the relationship, he was so sweet and never made me feel bad. I used to call him Angel. There’s nothing I asked for that he wouldn’t do for me. If I was wrong, he would still be the one to beg. He was just so perfect, not until after a year when his true colors started popping out. He disrespects me. During fights, he insults me and talks to me anyhow, making me cry. Omo, I’ve suffered for love o. I’ll still be the one to text him first and beg him. I can see all the red flags, but love has blinded me. A whole me that guys are dying to have, and one person is treating me like shit. I used to be a very hard girl. The reason I text him first after a fight is because I don’t want to start all over with a new person.
Sometimes I even think it’s evil eyes or a spiritual attack that’s making him act like that. I really love him and don’t want to give up. We had a fight recently. The cause of the fight was because I asked him for something, and he got angry, to the extent of me calling him, and he hung up on me ten times consecutively without dropping a text. I texted him and told him I was calling him because of an emergency—I had stomach pain and couldn’t walk to get medicine. I stay alone and had no one to take me to the hospital. I got angry about that. Why would you bang my calls ten times and not drop a text or anything? He replied that he was on a video call and didn’t see any notifications. The next thing he said was if I didn’t have anything reasonable to say, I should go to sleep. Lol.
This isn’t the first time he’s done that. He has been disrespectful to me. I told him he couldn’t even take a pinch of what he’s doing to me. He didn’t even care or ask about my health or anything. I cried hot tears. I cried out loud in my room. I shouted, “God, please let me forget him. I can’t continue to do this to myself.” I was hurt. I cried so much my chest was hard. After crying to my satisfaction, I wiped my tears. I decided to lock him out and pun!$h him. I’ll show him “shege.” In his life, he’ll never hurt a lady.
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