I have a boyfriend of three years, and he has a baby mama. She gave birth shortly before we started dating. I didn’t know he had a child before I fell in love. When I found out, I still wanted to give it a try because he said they were not together. Due to family issues, they couldn’t be together at that time because he wasn’t financially buoyant enough. She’s currently schooling, and she knows me. Along the line, I found their chats, where they promised to be with each other after her schooling, and she’ll be graduating this year. He apologized and promised it was not going to happen, and I stayed. 🤦🏽♀️ Now, I’ve come to discover that he’s very much in love with her. He and I have been through thick and thin, and we’re literally like twins now, but as it is, I’m so insecure.
I keep having recurring dreams and nightmares about them being together in the end. He, however, promised that we would get married, but obviously, they’ll be meeting each other over and over again on grounds of the child, and I KNOW that something will happen. I now feel like the intruder between them, and I don’t want to go into something I’ll regret. Has anyone here had this experience? How did it go? So, I’m deciding on taking a step back for them. He’s financially stable enough to afford her family’s desires anyway, so I guess it’s my sign. I need advice on how to end this mess. Thank you.
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