For the past few days, my girlfriend has been ranting and sending cur$es back to back, and also trying to paint me black. I’m not going to put everything here, but please, my brothers and sisters, we are all human beings. This girl came to rant that I’ve been sleeping with different ladies, which is not true. I can’t deny the fact that I cheated once in our relationship, but that was not up to a year ago, and I have no defense for my actions. Also, her claim that she caught me is not true; a friend of mine, whom she introduced me to, was the one who went to tell her different stories, most of which never happened because we didn’t even hang out together. To cut the story short, ever since the guy told her, she’s been mad at me.
After I confessed to cheating, which I did not deny, I honestly apologized to her countless times because I know it’s extremely painful. We talked about the issue for over a month, enduring sleepless nights, and she later said she had forgiven me. But a lot of you have been cursing me in the comments section without knowing what kind of person she is. I believe sex alone doesn’t keep a man. This girl has no single respect for me as a man. She doesn’t take any instruction I give her; she feels like no one can stop her from doing anything. She still has anger issues, h!tting me and throwing things whenever she’s angry. She insults me so badly, to the extent that she now uses my cheating as a weapon, making it impossible
for me to call her out on her wrongdoings. That’s not the only issue. She has a lot of male friends, which is not okay for me. Whenever I complain, she directly tells me that I can’t tell her what to do, that she’s not a kid. A lot has happened that I can’t even mention here, but all of a sudden, she came here to say I look like a monkey, calling me names, cur$ing me, and still saying she will deal with me before she leaves me—lol. I’m very sure the relationship is over now because I can’t cope anymore. I didn’t want to respond to all the trolls, but at some point, I need to let you guys know that not everything this lady says is true. She has a talent for painting someone as guilty of things they haven’t done. I don’t deny that I messed up by cheating on her once.
I felt disappointed in myself, but I didn’t expect her to bring the matter here. She doesn’t have any feelings for me anymore, as she said, and I don’t want to be the reason she’s stuck in something she’s not into. Please, brothers, I need your advice if my decision is right, because she has already said I’m irr!tating her and she doesn’t know how to tell me we should break up, but all her actions say that. I’m very sorry if anyone finds this offensive, but there’s a lot that happened that only I know what I went through. See you guys in the comment section.
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