I’m sad lately and have been contemplating which one to choose. I’m 26 years old and a successful gold vendor, but guys, I think I’m cursed because, ever since I was 18 till 24, no guy has ever toasted me. But recently, I toasted my dispatch rider because he’s cute, and I can tell he loves me too. We started dating, and I insisted he quit his dispatch work. I sponsored him to Finland to study more and start making a living for us as a man. I support him with 65% of his fees, which I willingly do out of love. I love and respect him so much, and he does the same too. But during AFCON 2024, something unusual happened. A Nigerian player requested my number, and we have been talking ever since then. This guy wants to kill me with gifts and attention, but I still talk to my babe in Finland oh.
But the issue now is that this footballer has asked me out. I didn’t force the vibes; it happened naturally. I’m so happy because this is the first time a man will ask me out himself. He wants to book a flight for me to come and watch him play on the field. Guys, I’m excited, for real. But my Finland Bobo—where will I keep him? If I break up with him, who will continue paying his fees? To be honest, I have fallen in love with this footballer oh. Should I just send all the money the Finland guy will need for his fees, then break up with him? Because this footballer already looks serious and has won my heart. Oh, we haven’t started dating, but his mum and all his siblings know me. In fact, he always insists I deliver their jewelry to them myself, and they all keep emphasizing how much their brother loves me. Which one should I choose, please?
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