So guys, there’s this girl I was dating in 2018. She was 16 then, and I was 19. We were so in love with each other—I mean, so in love. I was the one who deflowered her when she was 17, and she gained admission. Her family is financially okay; in fact, anything I gave her was just a tip of the iceberg that was not needed. Damn, this girl can cook, clean, and speak to my family with love ❤️. All my sisters love her, including my mom. She’s so humble. We got to spend time together because we schooled in the same state. This girl was so supportive then. In fact, at the age of 17, she gave me my first N700k because I didn’t really have much then at all. Our life was all good until one day when she called me, crying on the phone. She told me she cheated on me the day before, and her guilty conscience couldn’t let her breathe well, and she wasn’t happy.
This girl was begging me and crying. In fact, ever since we had started dating, I’d never seen her cry, but she cried that day and later told me that she knew I would not trust her again, so let’s break up, which I declined. I told her I had forgiven her, but it was all lies—I just couldn’t bear to see her leave me in such a manner. Ever since then, I made life really miserable for her, even though I was aware she wasn’t cheating again. I really made life miserable for her. After 8 months, we parted in a very toxic way. Before then, I was in another relationship without her knowledge, and I had already started making money too. After the breakup, she stayed a year without any man in her life. I know this because her WhatsApp was cloned by me. But, brethren, ever since that girl left, no girl has ever loved me genuinely.
They are either after my money or just want to mess up my mental health. I’m financially stable now, and I now have a girl who bore a child for me, but guys, this girl is my worst nightmare. I came to realize she’s not my comfort zone; she scares me a lot. I’m not married to her yet oh, but I’m taking care of her and opened a shop for her. Guys, this girl h8tes my family. In fact, she is so r#de to my mom. Did I tell you that she’s also a terrible cook? She takes her bath once in 3 days; she claims she’s allergic to water 😩. Before the pregnancy, we never spent 2 nights together. She always visits and leaves the next day. I saw the red flags when she was pregnant, but I was thinking it was pregnancy hormones and it would stop once she gave birth. Guys, this is a call for help.
This girl has never bought 1 pampers for our child. In her words, she doesn’t have money. I’m getting tired; I can’t breathe. It’s been 3 years now, and my family can’t stop mentioning my first girlfriend’s name—that she’s a good girl and people make mistakes. With all honesty, even after these years, I have not gotten over her, and the painful part is that she’s in a healthy relationship now. I don’t even know—maybe I should go and hijack my property back because I’ve already chased my baby mama away, because you can’t love me and h8te my family. Should I buy my ex a car? Am I even making the right decision? 💔 I love this girl, I swear, and she’s not even cheating now because I made a lot of findings and background checks without her knowledge. I’ve put her to the test a lot of times, and she passed it. But I want my baby back—I mean my lady. Help me oh 😩.
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