I had already made my decision on what to do, but when I see more opinions in the comments, it will be easier for me. So, I’ve got an ex who’s also my baby mama (BM). We have 2 kids together. She’s not a bad person; she’s amazing. We only separated because we wanted different things, and mostly in our relationship, we did things she wanted, not what I wanted. It’s been years, but I later got fed up pretending. So we had a disagreement, and we separated. But now I have a girl I like a lot. I told her almost everything about my BM.
I told her she is a wonderful person; we just separated because of differences about our future. At first, my present babe told me she didn’t want anything serious; she didn’t mind. Fast forward 2 months in, with crazy s£x and going out exploring. Sister has fallen in love with me. Now she wants to be my wife; she doesn’t even want a relationship as gf and bf. And tbh, I like her a lot! But I can’t disappoint or hurt my BM. She’s good to me and takes care of our kids. And now she told me 2 weeks ago she’s ready to work things out with me; she’s going to accept my terms and do what I want in the future.
She misses me and realizes she wasn’t considerate enough about my feelings and things I wanted. Now I’m confused. What can I do? I don’t want to hurt anyone. But I love my BM, and I like the new girl too. Both are amazing and good women. I know no one is perfect, not even me. It’s been two weeks, and I’ve just been keeping everything low-key. I know I have to tell someone, and I know it will lead to hurt and tears, which is a major weakness of mine. P.S. I told this girl in the beginning that I didn’t want anything serious for now, and she accepted. Now she’s deeply in love.
And I can’t sacrifice my kids for anyone, not even myself. And my BM has not been in any relationship since we separated a few months ago. We are both working and serious-minded people. I just thought this would be easy. I had no idea things would become this hard, smh. Women are confusing. One told me she wants different things, so I took time off. The other told me she relates and doesn’t want anything serious. Now, after fun and all, both of them want me seriously. No be juju be this?
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