I have been married to a very sweet man for 5 years now. We have a one-year-old baby. He doesn’t play with his parental duties at all. He’s a wonderful man, and I’m so blessed. He spoils me silly with good love. He takes our sexual life seriously, especially mine. My husband always wants to give me pleasure. He would randomly walk up to me and try to give me head or finger me. It makes him so happy when I c#m because I feel very relaxed. But here’s the thing: my libido has dropped drastically after birth. Each time he tries to do random pleasurable acts like that, I find myself pushing him away. I really don’t get in the mood. During ovulation, my libido is high through the roof, and I give him sex anytime, anyhow, anywhere, and any way.
He becomes so happy and does all kinds of things to me. But that’s only a few days in a month. Once ovulation is over, I find myself crawling back into my shell and avoiding his touch any way possible. It makes him quiet and disappointed, but he wouldn’t force it or try to make me uncomfortable. I wasn’t like this before birth. I have tried a lot of libido boosters, but nothing works. Has anyone been in this situation before? What should I take? What do I do? I really don’t want to push my baby boy away. I want to allow him to treat me like the baby girl that I am, but my body won’t let me be great. He’s an honest man, and he deserves some good loving too.
Also Read: My Man is Too Lazy