I met this girl again in 2024 through her friends who have been begging to give me her number since 2017 but refused because she said too many guys were after her and she wouldn’t say yes to me because she was already in a relationship. I really love this girl so much. Since she refused back then, I gave up and relocated to another state for school. I always kept my eyes on her through her friends, but luckily I got my chance again through another friend of hers. I met her, and that friend gave me her number on her birthday. I reached out to her and wished her a happy birthday.
Normally, you know how Nigerian girls are; when you wish them happy birthday, it ends with giving them money. So, I gave her a token for her birthday, and we chatted for a few minutes, then called it a day. The next day, I expressed my feelings to her. She said she didn’t believe in love anymore because her friends told me her boyfriend had broken up with her. I kept trying to express my feelings and not give up this time since I missed my opportunity back then in 2017. She didn’t agree, but I didn’t mind. I gave her money for food because she had a fever. Luckily, she got better.
I sent a nurse to give her home services, sorted all her bills, and got her provisions. I let her get better and never gave up. Luckily for me, she said yes. I’m not convinced enough because I felt maybe I forced her when she wasn’t ready. She told me her focus wasn’t on relationships but on her work, which she wanted to build and be okay with. I said I was ready to give my support; all I wanted was a yes before she agreed. So, the relationship started. Every week, I give her at least N10k to get anything she needs. I know it’s small because I’m catering for someone else as well, as I’m the first son and have many bills, even sponsoring my sister to school.
I’m coping with her, but I’m not feeling the relationship vibe with her. Nothing like “I love you” in return if I tell her I love her. If she posts something and I request her picture or video to post, she says she h8tes it when someone she’s dating posts her. Even if I want to call her on video call, I have to take permission. I love this girl so much and I’m not ready to let her go because I promised myself I would marry her. So, I’m confused. Is she really giving in to me wholeheartedly, or do I need to be more patient and give her time? I’m already investing in her. I’m 27, and I’m ready to propose to her on her next birthday when I will be 28 so I can get her engaged.
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